I spent the day bagging up mom's clothes. That was my primary directive.
I got 3 of the big black garbage bags full with another just full of the hangers. Oh, i forgot the shoes.
There were about 3 other bags of odds and ends, the walker and wheelchair and the Direct TV boxes and remotes. I took dh out to eat (Mexican), came home and took a hot soaky bath where i fell asleep!
I finished up a few little things tonight - cleaning the dining table mainly. But, i will tell you that i went thru her "important papers" tonight and found her Last Will and Testament where she specifically stated she did NOT want to leave anything to me, or one of my brothers. OUCH.
That did hurt. I never expected her to leave me anything but it's the way that it was stated and that i was put in with the son that has no relationship with mom. (The will was written in 2005 and she probably had other reasons not to include me but... you know.)
Thankfully none of the other siblings want to make an issue of it. They know things changed and are happy for me to be taking care of everything.
I also found things like mom's baby book and a magazine from her birth year.