Sorry your feelings were hurt, Sis! (((Hugs)))
This is a very complex question- and not so easy to give a pat answer to
You said it's a "Christian" wedding. Does that mean that the Bride & Groom are BOTH Christian? And your Sister, too?
>>> Yes, the bride's parents said they would not agree to a marriage unless the groom was also a Christian. The couple has been living together for a couple of years anyway and that nearly vetoes a big wedding imho but i know others don't feel that way. He became a Christian at some point, i guess.
If your Sister is a "Christian" but (as you say) a "Blasphemer" and "loaded" (on something other than alcohol?
)- then the Bible commands "not to even eat" with her. But if she is a non-Believer, and her son IS a Believer, that complicates matters. And, if the marriage is between a non-Believer & a Believer - that is even MORE difficult!
>>> Oh no! SHE is definitely NOT a Christian. She advocates for witches and all kinds of spiritualism but not Christ.
To complicate matters - is there also a divorce situation, where maybe the Groom's parents couldn't sit together?
>>> No divorce.
I was just reading II Cor the other day, where St. Paul talks about his personal anguish at shunning a certain Christian. Christians SHOULD be heartbroken if they need to do such a thing - But, if they do it coldly . . .
>>> I don't think we are educated on how this is to be done. It doesn't seem to be part of our mentality. And it can be VERY difficult.
All in all, a very sad situation for all concerned, and most difficult for the couple themselves.
I think i treat everyone kindly, maybe too much so. (LOL Didn't Lisa just tell me i was "too nice" a few weeks ago? Maybe it was Tori?) I like to err on the nice side but be ready to stand up to people when absolutely necessary or specifically asked my opinion.