sigh

So now dh has lost all the extra weight he needed to lose - and i have not.

I don't want him losing any more but i'm afraid upping his calories will automatically up mine! I know i don't HAVE to eat those things but i know i WILL.

I need to find things he likes - his "guilty pleasures" that i don't enjoy that much. He loves pepitas which i don't eat. Oysters! He likes his own spaghetti meat sauce which is too meaty for me. He likes buckwheat pancakes which do not like ME. I can easily make my banana pancakes if i make him buckwheats. He'll eat black olives by the can and i'm satisfed with a few.

I guess there are some tweaks i can do. Lord, help me.