I don't see man made holidays as sacred. Also, when you add more family, you add more commitments, and shifting days/times...so celebration and remembrancebecomes more fluid. I have two family members that work at our local Wal*mart. One works this Thanksgiving, the other has the day off. Both will have Christmas off, but my SIL doesn't care, as he is a Messianic Jew and celebrated Hanukkah. My dd works an over night shift at a local hotel here, so has the day off, but not the night of Thanksgiving. She will sleep in, go to dh's family dinner, visit us in the later afternoon and then go home and get ready for work. All my kids are so thankful for the jobs they have (dd and sil have had a lot of financial difficulty due to insufficient work this past year and now both have different jobs) that they don't see it as a sacrifice.
Do we get stuck on focusing on given days for thankfulness, celebration of certain events? Most of us do. If we carried that kind of focus into daily thankfulness, daily celebration/recognition, we might never feel like we have sacrificed anything, no matter the time and day we work. If we are living "unto the Lord" in all we do, then we are lving more fully every day. I'm still working on that!
Then all of this can lead into more debate on what days should there be no businesses open, what days should be held in higher esteem. Depending on our beliefs (not necessarily our relationship with the Lord) we will still have disagreements. Is the Sabbath Saturday or Sunday? Is Christ's birth in December or a different month and if so, is it good/better/best to celebrate Christmas/Easter (or Ressurection Sunday)/Hanukkah/any other religious based holiday on the days we recognize or should be shift dates, or celebrate at all? Are the U.S. dates of holidays really of great importance? Other countries don't think so, and we usually don't follow that of other countries, yet there is strong feelings in many for such types of holidays. Is there a right and wrong on any of this, or is it personal preference. What has God commanded? What about those who do not have a relationship with God? Do we determine for them what and when they celebrate or don't? Where is our part in any of this?
We do celebrate Christms, we talk about Advent, we gather for Easter and Thanksgiving with whomever is around, we take pause for Memorial Day and enjoy the extra day off when it happens for Labor Day, my kids enjoy Mother's and Father's days, we love birthdays. I personally have had inner struggle with many religious holidays over the years. I love that my kids want to recognize their parents, but I love more when we honor each other on a daily basis. Birthdays, well, I'm thankful for waking up each day, so the date of my birth is of less importance to me. I guess each season can bring about different thoughts and emotions on such things. I'll just keep talking to my Lord and God and do what He brings to my heart and mind to do.
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