Scott Bryce wrote:
The studies have shown that kids do better with their parents even in abusive situations, except in the most extreme cases. It is better to work with the families than to remove kids. My wife is a psychology/social work major who has had her kids taken. She stays on top of these things.
I agree. My dad was verbally/emotionally abusive, and while that wasn't an ideal situation, I loved my childhood and I'm really glad no one took me away from my parents. THAT would have really messed me up. I do wish my dad would have gotten help. I always knew he loved me, but had some type of disorder. My mom did try to get us away from that situation and did succeed, to some extent.
There's this absurd notion that the state cares more for a child (that they've never even seen before) than the child's own parents. Like the state gave birth to and raised the child. God gave that child to those parents, not the state, so there better be a darn good reason to interfere. I'm not saying its a good thing for a child to be in an unhealthy situation, just that the alternative often does more damage, and the state really should take that into consideration.