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 Post subject: I guess I am a "retired" homeschooler
PostPosted: Sat Jun 30, 2012 3:30 pm 
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So why do I work about 80 hours a week between babysitting the grandkids, running my tack store, And working again for my old employer!
I do see anything "retired" in there, except that I am tired again and again when I go to bed.

So....My first name really is Kysa, I live on a dairy farm in South Dakota, my own two children graduated from their homeschooling years and years ago. I am "schooling" the grandkids, although my daughter-in-law has decided they will attend a local very small public school. The oldest goes to kindergarten this fall. I will miss her.


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 Post subject: Re: I guess I am a "retired" homeschooler
PostPosted: Sat Jun 30, 2012 4:03 pm 
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Kysa - You are a recycled homeschooler since you have moved on to homeschooling the grandkids! :0) I hope your DIL will reconsider at some point. You never know!

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 Post subject: Re: I guess I am a "retired" homeschooler
PostPosted: Sat Jun 30, 2012 5:42 pm 
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I am "retired" as of February of this year.
I hate to say it, I did enjoy it but now we are dealing with College. I would rather deal with College than fight with what curriculum to use, we used a lot of different stuff, and I guess it all worked out in the end.

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 Post subject: I'm retired too!
PostPosted: Sun Jul 01, 2012 11:41 pm 
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I'm retired, too. My oldest son just graduated high school (with honors!). Shameless bragging: he also earned his Eagle Scout award, worked an average of 25 hours/week at a local hardware store, and attended his first year of college, where he took two classes each semester toward his goal of becoming a firefighter.

Whew.

We put #2 son in public school this year (first time ever) for his first year of high school. He ended up on the track team with a 4.53 GPA, all in honors classes. Next year he's going for a couple of AP classes.

Whew again.

Because of our finances, I had to leave the home and go out to work. #2 was getting the short end of the stick, although I guess we did well enough for him to do a great job at school! We bypassed our local school in favor of another, and it was an excellent decision for us all.

Kind of hard to leave... I've been working a variety of jobs, including two years as a kindergarten aide at a local school. The teacher I work with goes to my church and we know many of the same folks, so that's fun.

I've been building my decluttering business + helping out families who need an extra pair of hands (Mom with MS, 94-year-old grandma living at home, etc.). I've been walking dogs, doing laundry, writing PR, you-name-it to earn a buck. I told the Lord I'd say "Yes" to everything that came my way, and He has been very creative in His offerings.

Hubby is mostly retired, although he does some freelance ad/marketing work. He has two books on Amazon.com now (Phillip J. Powers), and we're hanging in there.

I just took a part-time job with an organic produce company that puts garden boxes and raised beds in people's yards so they can grow organic food. Many of them have never gardened before, ever, so it's kind of like homeschooling. I had to explain to one man the difference between the beets and carrots in one of his garden boxes. Oh my. I got one mom on the line who will begin homeschooling this fall, and we had a nice long chatty talk about it. She was excited to find a mentor close by because she says in her neighborhood they're "that family". I know what she means.

Old homeschoolers never die... they live on to encourage others. I've even gotten to my sister!!! She'll be schooling her 2nd grader for the first time this fall. I've given her TONS of books. :roll:

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 Post subject: Re: I guess I am a "retired" homeschooler
PostPosted: Mon Jul 02, 2012 8:24 am 
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Sounds like you've been one busy lady, Pam! That's great that your boys are doing so well. Tell us more about your decluttering business! How do you get clients? Are they primarily elderly?

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 Post subject: Re: I guess I am a "retired" homeschooler
PostPosted: Tue Jul 03, 2012 8:02 pm 
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Pam!!! :::Waving:::
I was just talking about you on here! I'll have to find the thread .. it was Laurajeans decluttering thread......
if you have time pop over there and add your 2 cents worth.. (or do you charge more these days??) ;)


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 Post subject: Decluttering
PostPosted: Sun Jul 08, 2012 1:36 pm 
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Hey Tory; I'll have to go check out the thread. I AM an expert you know, LOL!

I actually got started when I was at Mary Leggewie's. The amount of disorder in that house... she had her finger in every pie in town + ran a couple of business + homeschooled. Organizing her house wasn't a top priority.

She'd let my family come up to the mountains and stay for free, so I began shoveling out, I mean, cleaning her house while we visited ;) It was win-win. Our styles were very different and I learned to work with her to accomplish my goals. Then I realized that I could do that for other people.

Martha, my customers generally come to me word-of-mouth. For my first professional job, I hijacked a friend's Facebook thread! Her friend was complaining about all their junk, etc., so I said I'd come down and help. I sent the gal a private message with my fee ($25/hour) and she accepted. Then I found out she lived nearly three hours from me!!! Oh my goodness.

I took the challenge and went down. We spent about 5 hours literally shoveling out her office, which she'd been using as a personal storage space. Of course I took lots of pictures. She ended up giving me twice my fee, four bottles of very nice wine we found in the debris, and an entire Hefty bag of brand-new purses. She also gave me a little lecture about running my business (she is a tax accountant), so I got a LOT out of that day.

I gave the purses to a girlfriend of mine who runs a Christian women's fellowship. She used them as raffle prizes and gave one of the purses to a dear friend of both of ours who had cancer (she later passed away). Hubby and I cracked open one of the bottles of wine that night and toasted my new career!

I'm not working a lot... I've got a few jobs that are repeat customers. We try to do only 2 hours at a time (makes it affordable for most people), and focus on one area at a time. Instead of saying, "We're going to clean out the garage", we say, "We're going to make room for all the gardening supplies." I've done master bedroom closets, hall closets, pantries, bedrooms, offices... spaces rather than whole areas. In an office we might work on disposing of unnecessary paperwork and save re-doing the actual files for another time. Many times people just need a kick-start to get going. They hire me for one project, see how it works, and realize they can do the rest on their own. Sometimes not, and I get a repeat customer, LOL!

The jobs that are the worst are the "begetting" jobs. One thing begets another, like the book in the bible. You take one item out of an area and then there's no place to put it because the customer's storage issues are so severe. Those are gold, baby, but only if they call you back. In the meantime you can end up like I did with one customer -- a dining room table full of stuff that the client isn't ready to let go of, but can't sit blocking the place where people eat! I don't like to leave a client with a bigger mess than when we started, but occasionally that happens. In that particular case she needed to clean out two shelves of her pantry for her son who was returning home to live after attending culinary school. He needed a place for a big marble baking slab and the rest of his tools. We accomplished that (as well as cleaned out the rest of her pantry + two additional drawers), but the depth of her disorder is pretty severe.

I have door panels on my car advertising my business, business cards, Facebook, eblasts through a service called Constant Contact, and word of mouth. Any time a women's group needs a speaker I volunteer to talk about decluttering.

The verse on our chore sheet here at home is Matthew 12:44 -- "Then it says, "I will return to the house I left." When it arrives, it finds the house unoccupied, swept clean, and put in order." I've raised my kids to do their work before they leave the house so that when they arrive home, tired and hungry, they don't have to do things like clean out a kitty box before they can rest. I'm still working on training my husband, but he's only 63 and needs a little more time ;)

I tried placing a couple of ads on Craigslist, but am not getting much response. I tried fashioning the last ad as a "family helper" since I do a lot of what I would call "another pair of hands" work for clients. I'm not getting the types of calls I want from that ad, either. Lowering my rate to $15/hour hasn't made a difference at all. The type of clients who use me can afford $25, which is a good thing. Fortunately I live in an affluent neighborhood.

It's time to make some new door panels for my car, so I may jazz up the graphic and see if I can get some more attention. I've seen people looking at my panels as I drive; some even follow me into parking lots to get my card (of course I keep business cards in my glove box). They're not making that call to get me out there, though, so that's my new priority.

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 Post subject: Re: I guess I am a "retired" homeschooler
PostPosted: Sun Jul 08, 2012 4:20 pm 
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Wow, Pam, that sounds like a cool job. Does your business have a name?

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 Post subject: Re: I guess I am a "retired" homeschooler
PostPosted: Sun Jul 08, 2012 7:05 pm 
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Perhaps you are not getting the call to come help because they lost it in the clutter of their: car, purse, house...

Could you get their name and phone number in exchange for your card, and they you could follow up?


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 Post subject: Re: I guess I am a "retired" homeschooler
PostPosted: Sun Jul 08, 2012 7:43 pm 
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I'm working at getting better at follow up. I'm not much of a sales woman. I'm fine at a trade show or something where people are coming up to me, but I'm not comfortable tracking people down. I've also discovered that the couple of times I did pin people down and get the business... it wasn't very good business. You really have to be ready to let things go before you hire a declutterer. Having it forced upon you doesn't work.

I've even participated in events where I make a big gift basket of organizational tools (themed to bedroom, kitchen, etc.) + a gift certificate for my time and they STILL won't commit. These are people who've deliberately put a ticket in my bucket or whatever, so there you go. The psyche is a weird and wonderful thing.

So... I hand out cards, drive around the community a lot to show off those door panels, and chat myself up wherever I can. I think I can probably redo my Craigslist ad as well; I've only just gotten into that.

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