Darla wrote:
It's an angry God with little love that I can't believe in, Shawny. I know many choose to, and that's a freedom we have as Christians, it's a freedom's choice I respect, but do believe it's in error. It's wholly offensive to the character and love and joy and yearning of God. The reformed faith and its tenets are new to Christianity. They did not have a place in the Christian faith but for the last 300-400 years or so. That alone is enough to make one pause.
Sorry it took me so long to respond, I had no real internet access and even now I am using a cell phone as a hot spot in order to be online. And goodness I noticed all my spelling errors from last time and think I should have just not posted!
First of all, I have to say Wow! I have never seen God as angry with little love. In fact it's quite the opposite. God made us in his own image, but then Adam and Eve sinned. At that point he could have deided to stop what he made and start all over, but he didn't. But God is Just and has to punish sin, so he made a way for us to be reconciled to Him. He could have allowed all of us to go to Hell, but he shows his mercy by making a way for us to be with Him in eternity. That is LOVE.
However, to think that God is all LOVE and is also wrong. If he was all LOVE, he'd let everyone off the hook and we wouldn't need Jesus. He is JUST, and so he WILL punish sin. In the OT, he hardened hearts, struck people dead, turned a woman into a pillar of salt and so on... Is that a loving God? That's a just God who can and will do whatever he WILLS. Was it fair that he used different people in history for his purposes? Who are we to question that. I see it that God loves me so much that when he could have sent me to hell, instead he chose to have mercy on me. I don't know if I would have done the same!
As for being called reformed or calvinist, I don't like either references. I am a born again Christian who has been saved by the grace of God through faith alone in Christ alone. Scripture says that God predestined and chose from the beginning of time. Who am I to question God? From what I understand of the "reformers" was that the reason they are called reformed, was not because they reformed God's message, but that they reformed from the added laws and restrictions from the corrupt church at that time.
I already know that we will not see eye to eye on this subject. I was just sharing how "I" see the "reformed" faith compared to how you see it. We both have our own opinions and ideas of it. It's not my place to correct you and it's not your place to correct me. I believe God will reveal the truth to us in His timing.
I don't take any offense to what you write and I hope you don't take any offense to what I write. I think that's how true Christians handle these discussions.
Oh and I wanted to share that it wasn't until the last 2 years that I saw God in a whole new way. I see now just how HOLY he is. I think we all need to see the HOLINESS of God. It is so overwhelming to see just how great and wonderful He is. And at the same time to see how huge and powerful He is. I tremble in fear, respect and awe of Him while at the same time I love Him so much and need Him so badly.